Life cannot be more perfect. You have a wonderful husband who gives you everything you want. Your loving children are very talented. Your house is very cozy, and your neighbors are jealous. Then reality sets in. You need to prepare breakfast for everyone, the clothes needs to laundered, and something smells awful in the bathroom. Such is the life of a haggard mom. Everything and everyone is dependent on her.
It seems the whole household will fall apart without her. The worst thing about it is sometimes her family tends to take advantage. To solve this problem, a serious conversation with the whole family should take place. Yes you are the mom and they rely heavily on you, but they should learn to do their share. This dilemma of yours will not be fixed lest you do something about it. Do not worry though, after the talk they will surely realize what a great mother you are.